German experts were horrified, finding out that every fourth German is not averse to resorting to sex on the first date. These statistics are far ahead of the result of a study conducted more than 10 years ago. The situation is the same in Australia, more and more girls are ready to give themselves up on the first date.
The same opinion is shared by 30% of American women aged 18 to 45, and only one in five of the girls requires her boyfriend to use a condom..
The situation in Russia is not much better … 78% of women and men are for sex on the first date, and only 28% of them – this is an unacceptable phenomenon.
If you look at the problem from the other side, you can ask yourself: “For what reasons a man and a woman are ready to sleep on the first date?»
Everything seems to be clear with men: a lustful stallion, a hunter thirsting for the blood of a victim, etc.d. and t.P.
And what then drives our beautiful halves of humanity?
From a small survey conducted in the Kaliningrad region, a group of scientists found:
ordinary curiosity
The young man is handsome, uninhibited, he himself shows considerable desire. Usually such a gentleman is not stingy, he is ready to pay for dinner in a restaurant, give a beautiful bouquet of flowers. And the girl thinks: “Why does he try so hard? Maybe he wants to show that he is no less attractive in bed? Decided! I need to sleep with him.”.
Fear that a second date might not happen if you refuse
“My boyfriend is very gallant, charming, cheerful, handsome, relaxed. If I refuse him, he will think that I am a “gray mouse” listening to my mom, or simply a girl who wants to cheat him for grandmas. Moreover, if I don’t sleep with him now, then some other girl who runs after him will definitely do it. ”.
Longing for a one night stand
“Boring, parents sawing over all sorts of trifles, girlfriends got. A light adventure after a bottle of beer will cheer you up. Yes, and figs with him! We only live once in the world!»
Prove to a friend that “I am the first!»
“I know a guy who drives a lot of girls crazy. Christina told me about him. and Olya. and Marina. With each of them, he had already slept, and none of them could keep him. And I know how to do it! I have read many books on the subject. I will definitely succeed!..»
The time has come…
“My girlfriends are no longer virgins, so why am I sitting in them for so long? Or maybe this guy is my long-awaited and only? No, I won’t miss such a chance … With him, I will definitely succeed!»
What do guys think about sex on a first date??
There are two sides to the issue:
Some guys think it’s very cool, especially if the girl is reputed to be “touchy”.
But sometimes, things can be quite different:
“If I managed to sleep with her so quickly, where is the guarantee that tomorrow she will not sleep with another?»
So what and how should be done so as not to alienate the boyfriend?
One of the main criteria is that sex for the first time must be prepared. Settle in comfortable “sexy” conditions. Remove external irritants and unnecessary discomfort – fear that someone catches you, haste, haste, etc.d.
Prepare carefully for the upcoming date – take a shower, carry out personal hygiene activities. The end of a date can vary, so always follow these rules or you risk alienating a man once and for all.
Still, it’s better for you to take care of such a thing as a condom. Not every man takes condoms on a date, paying for it at the most “piquant” moment. Taking a contraceptive with you, you will be sure that you will not be threatened with either sexually transmitted diseases or headaches for 9 months if you become pregnant.
And yet, from the point of view of sexologists, some secret after the first date should still remain. It’s like the raisin in a bun that a guy wants to get his hands on. And perhaps even – a “bait” that can force the gentleman to make a second date.
Good luck on your first dates!
